So much has been going on lately. As of Monday, I became the newest Assistant Manager at the Coventry store. This is the first time I've been in a store that has more than one AM. I am working anywhere between 36-40 hours per week, with the goal being 38. The drive is a lot longer than I am used to, but as my friend Laura suggested, it can be quite enjoyable also. I am alone in the car and can choose to sing along with the radio, or just turn it off and be still in the moment. My first day at the new store I used that time to pray for my safety in driving, the well-being of my children, my nerves, and the reception from the new staff I would encounter. This week I've had to find people to watch the kids a few times, but for next weeks schedule I really only need about 4 hours of help, because I am working all evenings.
I have been working hard to win over the staff. I think some of them are a little suspicious about having a "new" person around. They don't realize that I've been with the company longer than anyone at their store! I think a lot of that is because they would rather have someone promoted from within their own store, rather than someone driving out from another store. So far I feel like everything is going to be fine. My biggest goal now is to try to get to know the other assistant manager, and hopefully she will accept me. The first day I met her, she seemed nice and said she was happy I was there, yet the second day I saw her, in my opinion she completely closed herself off and was "unavailable" to talk. I had even stayed an extra hour than I was scheduled, just so I would have the opportunity to work/connect with her. Oh well. I am really trying hard not to come on too strong, because that is easy for me to do. I'm also trying to remind myself that there are some definite maturity issues in that situation. They have a lot of training issues in that staff, and so far I've trained 3 people to do different tasks that they really should have known how to do in their first month or two on the job. It helps me to understand why my District Manager placed me there. He really has a knack for getting the right people into the right stores, so I'm trying to trust his judgment. All of the hours I am working this week are classified as training hours, even though I'm not actually training. The beauty of that is that my hours do not count against their payroll, so it gives me the opportunity to work morning and evening hours to get to know both my manager and the part-timers.
Another big thing that has happened this week is the purchase of our first minivan! Chris and I have been talking about getting a larger vehicle since we found out we were pregnant with Ian. Our original plan was to buy one before he was born, but then the stinker showed up so early (and expensively), so that was put on the back burner. We knew we needed to get a larger vehicle before our August trip to Florida to visit Chris' grandparents, so I started looking the past couple of weeks at several dealerships. Chris went with me this past weekend, and we found one that met all of my must-haves and was a price he could be happy with. All I really cared about were power locks, power doors, stow and go, and power lift-gate. We found a blue 2007 Chrysler Town & Country touring edition. It is older than I was originally considering, but I actually preferred the drive to any others I had test-driven. It had some nicks, scratches and a front bumper that needed replaced, so we bought it Monday evening, but will actually drive away with it tonight. (Well, Chris will - I'll be at work.) We are trading in our blue Saturn in just the nick of time, because the registration needed to be renewed next month. :) I was very impressed with Chris' ability to talk the salesman down over and over again, and his power of silence. He would just not say anything, and the salesman would automatically start going lower!
So now I am running around the house, doing laundry and dishes and keeping as caught up as I can. We have friends from Iowa coming to visit for a long weekend, so I have my work cut out for me, but so far, I am enjoying everything, even if I'm a bit busier than I'm used to. :)
The situation is what you make of it. Let the others be the judgmental ones. Not everyone in life is going to like you. Right now, you are the "bad guy" because you are new, you have the word "manager" in your job title, and you are there to show them how the job is done right and to make sure it gets done properly.
ReplyDeleteSo... LET GO and LET GOD. That's what being a Christian is all about.
And when it comes to the well-being of your children, always know they are in good hands. You can't shelter them forever and things are not always going to be to your liking, but that's life. You are raising 2 fine boys, who are truly wonderful, and even with you working full-time,I can't fathom things are going to change. If anything, they are going to learn you have to work hard to get the things you want in life.
Always do your best and know that no matter what you are loved (by God, family, friends, etc.).